individuals in groups

In the article “individuals in groups”, Carol Tavris states that when something happens, people’s reactions are different. Experiments have shown that individuals have faster reactions than a group of people when the accident happened. In fact, people become lazier when they are in a group because they care about what others think. I found myself agreeing with the author’s opinion. I feel relax when I am alone, and I feel nervous when I am in a group.

I feel relax when I stay alone. Human is very complicating. They have diversity emotions and very strong emotion control. They show different emotion in different situation. When they argue with someone, they will angry. When they win the lottery, they will very happy and exciting. Sometimes, people don’t show any emotion on their face, but in their mind. When I stay alone I feel comfortable and relax because I don’t have to considered others feeling. I will think that nobody look at me, even I can do some stupid, who knows? Nobody focus on me that make me relax. I don’t get any pressure to confirm. I don’t care about someone will assess me or teas me. When I go back to home at late night, I always lie down the bench in the cart because there is no one else. I feel so relax. However, I would not lie down at peak time. It reflects people get relax when they stay alone.

I don’t want to be a special person when I am in a group. Do you have experience about  when you in a place where is very quilt everyone don’t make any sound, you don’t want be first who make sound. Because everyone doesn’t want be different. I have experience about it, it happens very usually. When I read the book in the library. I don’t even want take breath because that environment is very quilt. I don’t want make any sound. If I got a sneeze, than everyone will eyes on me. It makes me so nervous. Therefore, I don’t want do something special to attract others.

In conclusion, I feel nervous when I am in a group because I afraid everyone focus on me. When I stay alone I will feel relax because there is nobody focus on me so people make me different feeling.