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In the article “I know the truth, so don’t bother me with facts”, by Jeffery Kluger, the author states that people usually trusts what they beliefs, when the answer contradicts their belief, they always denial the truth. Therefore, it reflects people don’t wants to distract what they beliefs, even it is not truth. The subjective is dominant in people’s mind. However, it is a kind of negative emotion, excessive subjective in certain things that is not helpful to be successful.
Excessive subjective cause people
make wrong decision. People
have to make decision for so many things in their life, sometimes once the
decision was made, the result cannot change. People usually regrets about their
decision wrong. In fact, sometimes we can predict the result before the
decision because there usually have some omens before something decided. Such
as sunny day would not rain that like forecast said. People excessive believe
themselves cause they make mistake. People know that raining is possible, but
they still insist their opinion. It reflects that sometimes people make mistake
not because they make wrong decision, it because they didn’t regard objective
exist. Too many examples show that excessive subjective cause people make
mistake. Even can give
the example from the accent, Trojan horse is a example to prove that excessive
subjective cause mistake. If Trojan didn’t downgrade Greek, the horse was
couldn’t carry into the castle. Therefore, the bad result is not because bad
choose, it because excessive subjective of choose.
Excessive subjective can affects the
relationship. People who excessive subjective that become obstinacy. No one
willing to give the advise for obstinacy person because they don’t accept
anyone’s idea. Chinese has a proverb “people can’t aggressive if he doesn’t
study from other person.” In fact, the most important is if the person always negative
others advisement, then the others would not have good relation with that
person. Zhou Yu is a general in the SAN GUO prior of ancient china. He is very talented;
he was a get general rank when he was 17 years old. However, he is obstinacy
person, he was died because his partner killed him, Zhou Yu looked down on this
person. This story reflects excessive subjective effects relationship.
In conclusion, people excessive
subjective is a negative emotion, this negative is affects person aggressive
and sometime it even could cause very serial problem. Therefore people should
overcome excessive subjective in anything. People should respect truth and take
care others feeling when make decision.
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