individuals in groups

In the article “individuals in groups”, Carol Tavris states that when something happens, people’s reactions are different. Experiments have shown that individuals have faster reactions than a group of people when the accident happened. In fact, people become lazier when they are in a group because they care about what others think. I found myself agreeing with the author’s opinion. I feel relax when I am alone, and I feel nervous when I am in a group.

I feel relax when I stay alone. Human is very complicating. They have diversity emotions and very strong emotion control. They show different emotion in different situation. When they argue with someone, they will angry. When they win the lottery, they will very happy and exciting. Sometimes, people don’t show any emotion on their face, but in their mind. When I stay alone I feel comfortable and relax because I don’t have to considered others feeling. I will think that nobody look at me, even I can do some stupid, who knows? Nobody focus on me that make me relax. I don’t get any pressure to confirm. I don’t care about someone will assess me or teas me. When I go back to home at late night, I always lie down the bench in the cart because there is no one else. I feel so relax. However, I would not lie down at peak time. It reflects people get relax when they stay alone.

I don’t want to be a special person when I am in a group. Do you have experience about  when you in a place where is very quilt everyone don’t make any sound, you don’t want be first who make sound. Because everyone doesn’t want be different. I have experience about it, it happens very usually. When I read the book in the library. I don’t even want take breath because that environment is very quilt. I don’t want make any sound. If I got a sneeze, than everyone will eyes on me. It makes me so nervous. Therefore, I don’t want do something special to attract others.

In conclusion, I feel nervous when I am in a group because I afraid everyone focus on me. When I stay alone I will feel relax because there is nobody focus on me so people make me different feeling.

assignment in the class: objective summuray

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       In the article “I know the truth, so don’t bother me with facts”, by Jeffery Kluger, the author states that people usually trusts what they beliefs, when the answer contradicts their belief, they always denial the truth. Therefore, it reflects people don’t wants to distract what they beliefs, even it is not truth. The subjective is dominant in people’s mind. However, it is a kind of negative emotion, excessive subjective in certain things that is not helpful to be successful.

Excessive subjective cause people make wrong decision.  People have to make decision for so many things in their life, sometimes once the decision was made, the result cannot change. People usually regrets about their decision wrong. In fact, sometimes we can predict the result before the decision because there usually have some omens before something decided. Such as sunny day would not rain that like forecast said. People excessive believe themselves cause they make mistake. People know that raining is possible, but they still insist their opinion. It reflects that sometimes people make mistake not because they make wrong decision, it because they didn’t regard objective exist. Too many examples show that excessive subjective cause people make mistake.  Even can give the example from the accent, Trojan horse is a example to prove that excessive subjective cause mistake. If Trojan didn’t downgrade Greek, the horse was couldn’t carry into the castle. Therefore, the bad result is not because bad choose, it because excessive subjective of choose.

Excessive subjective can affects the relationship. People who excessive subjective that become obstinacy. No one willing to give the advise for obstinacy person because they don’t accept anyone’s idea. Chinese has a proverb “people can’t aggressive if he doesn’t study from other person.” In fact, the most important is if the person always negative others advisement, then the others would not have good relation with that person. Zhou Yu is a general in the SAN GUO prior of ancient china. He is very talented; he was a get general rank when he was 17 years old. However, he is obstinacy person, he was died because his partner killed him, Zhou Yu looked down on this person. This story reflects excessive subjective effects relationship.

In conclusion, people excessive subjective is a negative emotion, this negative is affects person aggressive and sometime it even could cause very serial problem. Therefore people should overcome excessive subjective in anything. People should respect truth and take care others feeling when make decision.

                                                                                                    

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Dr.C.Jason Smith

Yuchen Zhu

03/05/14

In the article “HYPE”, by kale Lasn, the author states that advertisement makes people mental pollutants, it comes anywhere in our live, it even place such as on the nozzle or bank machine where is unusual place. People cannot get away from the ad pollution; people even cannot avoid ad pollution in their live. Since I finished read this article, I am so agree with author’s opinion. I believe that advertisement makes our life bad.

Advertisement makes children unhealthy. We all know children are hope of the future but their ability of self-control is very low. Sometimes they don’t know what is good and bad. So they need parents to teach them what is correct. However, advertisement always very fancy, it attracts children to buy what is they advertised, but most of ads are not good for the children, such as fast-food makes children becomes a fat. It is not healthy. Some toy is very dangerous. I saw a electric fan sale in china. It is a mini fan, but it is spin very high speed when turned it o. if the children put their finger on the fan, it would cut their finger, so it is very dangerous toy, but the fan’s ad always on the TV. Therefore a lot of children want to buy it because they sew the ad on the TV. It is definitely not good for children.

Advertisement makes people waste their money. A lot of ad exaggerates their product and try to lie to the audience. Obviously, they want to sell their product. However, overstate their product make people waste their money. Because sometimes the product is not that good, the product is overstates by ad. I bought a pair of shakable dumbbell. When I sew the ad on the TV is very good, it can builds my figure stronger, lose fat and gains muscle. The model has very beautiful and perfect figure in the ad and it notes that if people use that dumbbell, their body will become like the model. Later on I brought the shakable dumbbell and use it for a month. But the dumbbell broke just because I shake it. Is it shakable dumbbells right? In fact, it is not working for build muscle at all. It is very bad quality product. Therefore I wasted money bought a product which is not useful and low quality.

In conclusion, advertisement can help the company sell their product but makes our live bad.